As parents, we have all faced this – dreaded – moment when we had to tell our child(ren) that we’ve been lying to them all those years about Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy… Approaching Christmas, here is how a father responds to his son when confronted with the horrible dilemma.
Son: “Dad, I think I’m old enough now. Is there a Santa Claus?“
Dad: “Ok, I agree that your old enough. But before I tell you, I have a question for you. You see, the “truth” is a dangerous gift. Once you know something, you can’t unknow it. Once you know the truth about Santa Claus, you will never again understand and relate to him as you do now. So my question is: Are you sure you want to know?“
Brief pause…
Son: “Yes, I want to know.”
Dad: “Ok, I’ll tell you: Yes THERE IS a Santa Claus…”
Son: “Really?“
Dad: “Yes, really, but he’s not an old man with a beard in a red suit. That’s just what we tell kids. You see, kids are too young to understand the true nature of Santa Claus, so we explain it to them in a way that they can understand.
The truth about Santa Claus is that he’s not a person at all; he’s an idea. Think of all those presents Santa gave you over the years. I painstakingly picked out and purchased each and every one of those presents. I watched you open them. And did it bother me that you didn’t thank me? Of course not! In fact it gave me great pleasure.
You see, Santa Claus is THE IDEA OF GIVING FOR THE SAKE OF GIVING, without thought of thanks or acknowledgement. When I saw that woman collapse on the subway last week and called for help, I knew that she’d never know that it was me that summoned the ambulance. I was being Santa Claus when I did that.“
Son: “Oh…“
Dad: “So now that you know, you’re part of it. You have to be Santa Claus too now. That means you can never tell a young kid the secret, and you have to help us select Santa presents for them, and most important, you have to look for opportunities to help people. Got it?“
Moral of the story:
Help each other this Christmas, without without expecting anything in return. And…be kind. You see, doesn’t being Santa Claus embody the spirit of love, giving, and compassion, in alignment with what Jesus taught us after all?
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